Question: how should i do in order to help my self in hormosexuality

Brayan Odeka answered on 22 Jul 2025:

Hey champion, let’s talk heart to heart — like an older sibling who cares deeply for you.

You asked a brave question: “How can I help myself in homosexuality?”
That shows you’re thinking seriously about your life and your future — and that’s already something to be proud of.

Let me speak to you like you’re my little brother or sister:

1. You’re Not Broken
First, know this: you’re not bad, cursed, or less of a person. Everyone has thoughts and feelings they don’t fully understand at your age. It doesn’t mean you’re doomed — it means you’re growing.

2. Your Mind is Like a Garden
Whatever thoughts you plant and water, will grow. If you feed yourself with love, clean thoughts, good friends, prayers, and purpose — beautiful things grow inside you.

But if you keep secrets, isolate yourself, or feel shame, weeds grow — and they choke your joy.

So water your garden daily with good choices. Stay close to people who want the best for you.

3.Pray and Talk to God
God is not angry with you. In fact, He loves you more than anyone ever could. If you’re confused, go to Him in prayer like this:

“God, I don’t understand everything I feel, but I want to be whole and strong. Help me walk the right path.”

He listens, even when you whisper.

4. Protect Your Heart
Be careful with the things you watch, listen to, or talk about with others. Some things may look fun or feel exciting, but they can confuse your heart more.

Keep your heart clean, and your future will stay bright.

5. Don’t Walk Alone
Talk to someone older that you trust — a youth pastor, parent, teacher, or mentor. Carrying things inside can feel heavy, but sharing brings light.

You’re not strange, you’re not too late, and you’re not alone. You’re a future leader, a world-changer — and this is just one chapter in your story.

Stay strong, stay kind to yourself, and always stay close to God.